People don’t change.

“It is difficult to say what truth is, but sometimes it is so easy to recognize a falsehood.” ~Albert Einstein

Haven’t you heard that expression, ” People don’t change?”  And , if you take a look at people you see that, for the most part, it’s true.  People don’t change.  They live their whole lives doing pretty much the same thing.  And, why is that?  Come on, you gotta know this by now, if you’ve read even a few of these posts.  Yes, that’s right, it’s because they maintain the same beliefs, keep thinking the same thoughts, and having the same feelings.

Our consciousness produces our lives.  But, even more so, our subconscious produces our lives.  Our subconscious is the cradle of our beliefs which are formed when we are quite young.  If we don’t explore those beliefs and question them, seriously question them, then we will not change our patterns.

Are you exactly where you want to be right now in your life or do you crave a more fulfilling life that corresponds with your beliefs, integrity, and dreams?   If you are exactly where you want to be then you are thinking and feeling along the lines of growth and happiness.  If you’re not there, then it’s time to do a life review.

Sounds like way too much work, doesn’t it.  It is work, dammit!  You have to start asking questions, the hard ones, like “Why am I in the same type of situation that I always seem to end up in?”  Whether it’s your love life, home life, or work life, if you keep finding yourself having the same issues and predicaments then it’s time to take a good hard look at your thoughts and patterns of response.


Do you want to change your profession, but every time you start to form plans for change the desperate voice of fear and failure lures you back into complacency?  It’s time to have faith!   You’ve done this before and too many times, at that!  Open yourself to the truth that the universe wants you to be happy and if you can see yourself happy and doing what you love then it will happen.  Allow the universe to flow through you.  Stop resisting with your negative feelings.  Open up to miracles.

Do you want to have a happy relationship but every time you meet someone they turn out to be less than what you want?  Start knowing how much you deserve to have a wonderful partner.  You won’t attract a healthy partner if you don’t believe you are worthy.  You are the most loved and adored being in the universe!   If you don’t believe it check out the link.  You are important to the consciousness and awakening of the whole world!  Until you believe this you will attract only those that would use you.  When you know your worth you will attract those who value you.  Then it is up to you to continue to believe in your excellence and not let fear creep in and tell you that it can’t be true, it won’t work out, you’re not good enough.  If you let this happen you will sabotage the relationship.  This happens when we first meet someone who is fabulous, then we freeze up with fear.  We either sabotage it or come up with excuses why it won’t work, such as we’re not in a good place, or we are too busy, or we start to nitpick at their personalities til we convince ourselves that they aren’t what we really want.


If your home life is less than ideal, look at how you are thinking about your family.  Are you expecting love and respect or are you expecting mistreatment and victimhood?   Are you giving love and respect or are you looking for the negative and always finding it?

Be grateful for all you have and more will come to you.  Be aware of your feelings.  This is the most important step in changing your life.  When you feel bad it is a sign of negative beliefs and thoughts.  Use your emotions as you would use a GPS system.  If you feel bad, change course.  As you think so you become.  Be a brilliant light for yourself and for those with whom you hold influence.  People do change.  We just need to know that change is needed.  We need to review and make those changes.  You are fabulous!  You can do anything.  Now, change!

Affirmations with love and respect:

  • I hold all beings in love and respect.
  • I give to others that which is most important to them.
  • I deserve to have a happy and fulfilling life.
  • I live the life I desire.
  • All good things come to me.
  • I have an embarrassment of riches.

Imagine you are on a wonderful vacation with the ones you love.  You are all glowing with the love you feel for each other.  Life is amazing and you made it this way.

I am not going to fight anymore.

” I never worry about the future, it comes soon enough.”     ~Albert Einstein

Of all of the Professsor’s quotes I think this is one of the most important.  It seems so trivial, so trite, but to me it means so much.  It’s about allowing.  It’s about not fighting.  It’s about letting go and allowing the universe to lead us.  If we can allow ourselves to be who we are, which is indistinguishable from the All, then we can allow the All to take us where we are meant to go.

When we fight against something, whether it’s the government, corporations, banks, our emotions, our friends, our feelings, our family, people we work with, if we fight against any thing or situation at all that we don’t want in our lives, then we are giving it energy.  We are feeding a fight.  We are transforming our energy, our love, into a weapon.  As we struggle against this thing we are fueling it and the situation will continue as long as we feed it.  I don’t think these are things we want to feed.

We want to feed joy, peace, and love.  We want to allow the universe, which we know is love, to lead us to a place of happiness.  Happiness is our birthright.  It is the product of love.  Anything that can take our peace away is not real.  The only thing that can take our peace away is forgetting who we are; love.


If you truly know that you are not separate from the universe, from love, then you can never be without peace.  Externals will not affect you.  You will be the presence of love.  In this state of being you are untouchable.  If you find yourself feeling “negatives” and while feeling them you accept them as a natural reaction and don’t fight them then you are allowing. You become an observer of these feelings, rather than a participant.  You are being present in your being of love and seeing these things as what they are, manifestations of the ego.

When you are angry at someone, you are not being love, for if you were, you would not judge or condemn them, knowing that you are not separate from them.  They are part of the universe, part of the infinite matrix of love.  All is well in your world when you know this.  You will forgive instantaneously, and eventually see that there is nothing to forgive.  How can you be angry at someone who doesn’t yet know that they are love?  Often we act from a lack of faith.  We don’t believe that the universe loves us, we are too impatient to wait for the result of our beliefs and thoughts.  We feel unloved and abandoned.  In these times it is so important to inspire ourselves and remember times that the universe saved us.  We are here for a reason and the universe will give us everything we need to fulfill our purpose.


When you stop worrying about the future and let the universe lead you, you will be allowing all the love and joy to happen spontaneously.  The universe will lead you to your perfect self.  The universe will lead you to places you thought you would never be because of your ego’s limiting beliefs.  Magic will ensue!  Be prepared for the unexpected and relish it.  Be prepared for miracles and embrace them!

There are no limits to how happy you can be when you allow the limitless potential of eternity to take over and guide you!  Eternity is now.  Allowing all possiblities and all experiences into your life will help you realize the wonders of the mysterious.


Don’t worry about anything, but if you do worry (as we all do), allow yourself that, be gentle on yourself, knowing that the universe sees your nurturing of yourself as an indication of self love and will help you through it.  Give your worries to the universe, or Angels or Jesus or God, or whatever symbol of love and guidance works for you.  Allow them to take your burdens.

Allowing is loving.  Letting go and giving up the fight is loving.  Following the peace works.  Fighting continues the cycle of anxiety and fear.  Let go and let love lead you.  You will be amazed at the wonderful synchronicity of love.

  • Allow yourself the happiness of these affirmations:
  • All that happens in my life is leading me to a place of peace.
  • I allow the universe to guide me, trusting in its love for me.
  • There are no bad emotions.
  • I give up my burdens to love.
  • I allow myself to be lead by love.
  • All is forgotten and forgiven, I am at peace.

Imagine yourself living in a world where all people act from a place of love.

Sleep well, my love, for your new life is here.

“…no illusions lulled him to sleep except for an often exaggerated faith in his own ideas.” ~Albert Einstein

Science has determined that it takes the average person between 10-20 minutes to fall asleep.  From personal experience I’d say that’s about right.  If I’m exhauseted or in sleep debt it takes less than 5 minutes.  If I’m stressed, more than 20 minutes.  I’m happy to say that doesn’t happen much anymore since I decided to use my last 10-20 minutes of my day in a positive way which will enhance my life.

Many years ago it would almost always take me half an hour to an hour to get to sleep.  I remember expecially stressfull times when it would take forever to get to sleep and then I would wake in the middle of the night and be unable to go back to sleep.  I drove myself crazy.


I called it the endless tape loop.  I would lie down at night, get comfortable, and then start to replay all the terrible things in my life.  That was the time of my victim mentality.   I was the victim of the awful and mean things people did to me.  I was a victim of their selfishness and their thoughtlessness.  I was a victim of financial woes and career issues.  Poor me.  I would play this tape over and over while imagining even more soon to be dramas!  Most of the dramas never happened, but that didn’t stop my imagination from seeing them all in their sick and twisted glory.

I shudder to remember those times.  That is over.  I am thankful for it as a learning experience.  I now use my time in bed before I fall asleep to think of positive events and people in my life and to give thanks for them.  But, mostly, I use this time to see the future that I want and to feel as if it is actually  here.  I expect the life of my dreams to come true and I use this time at night to see myself enjoying my life fulfilled and feeling the feelings of it in the present moment.  It is one thing to visualize  your life or to say an affirmation, it is a much more powerful thing to feel the joy of living your real life, the one that fills you with enthusiasm and delight as you picture it in your mind.  Before you go to sleep at night feel the joy and happiness of your perfect life as you see it enacted in your imagination.  Act as though it is already here.  Feel as though it is already here.  Make plans in your head as though that life is already here.  See your plans as accomplished and feel the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction you have from making your dreams a reality!


You will go to sleep and all of these wonderful feelings and pictures will work in your subconscious, which is the Collective, the Source, the Creative Force.  These dreams will be mainifested even faster.  During your waking hours work on making your dreams a reality with the expectation that it will succeed perfectly.  Do not be anxious about how.  Do not listen to anyone else’s opinion of your dreams.  Have you heard of the book What You Think of Me is None of My Business?  The title says it all.  You are responsible for your beliefs, your thoughts, and the life you manifest.  It doesn’t matter what any other person thinks, what any facts are, what any study or survey shows; you are responsible for manifesting your life.   Congratulations, you now know that you have all the power!  Expect it.  Do it.  Celebrate it!  Woohoo!


Say’em like ya mean’em.

  • I am living the life of my dreams.
  • All things I expect with complete belief come true.
  • I use my time wisely.
  • I feel the joy of a life fulfilled.
  • My dreams are my reality.
  • I deserve a wonderful and fulfilling happy life!

Imagine yourself being congratulated for something wonderful that has happened to you, because of you!

Sometimes you’re sad.

“I know what’s wrong, dear fellow, but I don’t know how to turn it off.”  ~Albert Einstein

We’ve talked about how changing our thoughts and emotions can have a positive influence on our lives and I’m sure at one point or another you’ve said, “Sure, easy to say, but when you’re in the middle of it, it’s not so easy to do.”  It’s true, it’s not easy to do.  We all have sad or angry or anxious emotional experiences, what some call “negative” emotions.  What a terrible place this world would be if we didn’t.  We need this duality of emotions.  How can we feel joy if we haven’t felt despair?  This is part of what makes us human.  We help each other through difficult times.  We love and support each other.


If you’ve lost someone, whether it’s through death, divorce, or distance; no matter what the reason, you are going to feel sad.  That’s only natural.  Fighting your feelings of sadness is only going to cause more conflict in your emotions.  Instead, allow those feelings.  Look at them.  Give yourself permission to be sad for as long as it takes.  Watch how the emotion takes over your physical body as you cry or scream.  Know that though you feel sad it will pass.  It may come back, and that’s okay.  We have to feel these emotions or they won’t let go.  Fighting somethng is giving energy to it.  When we can, watching our emotions really helps.  For some reason, taking a step back while you feel sadness or anger or whatever it is that you’re feeling, and being present with it, helps.  It’s almost like watching someone else feel the emotion, though as you’ll see, you’ll definitely feel them.  I don’t know why, but after we stay with these emotions for as long as we need to, we can leave them, knowing they may come back, but also knowing that we can live with them and, very importantly, function with them.  Everyone has their own way of grieving, a personal way of living with loss, allow yourself grief.  You may feel overwhelmed at times, please know that you are loved.  Again, whether through death, divorce, or distance the loss is a sadness.  During holidays, celebrations, anniversaries, birthdays, it will return full force.  When you lose another person, all the other losses will come back full force.  Feel them, love yourself through them.  Allow yourself these feelings.


If someone betrays us we are going to feel hurt.  Even if we lose them because we have grown in different ways, it’s going to hurt.  We need to feel that sadness or anger.  It’s not just going to dissipate by itself.  When we feel these “negative” emotions we don’t need to judge ourselves and wonder why we can’t control our emotions.  With some time we will be able to control them if the circumstances call for it, but with a fresh wound we need to stop the bleeding and go through the pain until we can adapt to it and find ways to function with it.  The wounds will heal with enough time.  It is good to know that all things have a season.  There may always be a feeling of loss, but the despair will pass.  Sometimes the feeling of loss will be replaced with beautiful memories.   The love will always be present.

You are the love.  You are the one that makes you happy.  The first time you realize that you are really happy after a period of grief it is usually a relief, but often frightening because you realize that you can go on without the person that you lost.  It may be frightening because you are afraid, on a deep level, that if you attach to the happiness you will experince loss again.  You probably will experience loss again.  When you lose someone through death, it may seem as though you are betraying that person, there may be a feeling of guilt that you survived the loss.  Allow this emotion, too.   Don’t judge.  Just be and love yourself.

You will experience happiness again.   I don’t mean the person you lost didn’t add to your life or that you didn’t love them, but your happiness was never dependent on them.  They may have been part of the experience, a very important part of your journey, but the happiness has always been internal.  They may have been a huge part of your life, but they were not the cause of your happiness or your pain.  You are the love and you are the joy.

Every loss we’ve had, whether it’s a person, a way or life, or a thing, happened to us for a reason.  It has helped us grow.  It has made us who we are.  If we can allow ourselves to experience that loss and feel that loss we will be better for it.  And all of our losses will bring us to a place where we have a deeper knowing of who we are.  We are not this body we live in.  We are an eternal being of love.  In eternity we have everything.

Allowing ourselves to feel deep dark emotions without judgment is so very important.  Self love is our way of healing and if we are condemning ourselves then we are not loving ourselves.  Everyone goes through the darkness.  If they don’t then they can’t heal.  Accept that you need some time to feel sad or angry.  Love yourself through it.  Nurture yourself through it.  With this wonderful self love you will heal.  The universe will recognize that you love youraelf and are allowing yourself time to heal.  It will help you remember who you are.  Take your time and allow yourself whatever you need to get back on your path to bliss.  It will still be there when you’re ready.

Allowing affirmations;

I allow myself time to heal.

I nurture myself when I need it.

I respect my feelings and allow them to teach and heal me.

I am grateful for the love I feel for myself.

I am grateful for all who help me in the dark times on my journey.

I know that I am the love and happiness.

Imagine yourself enveloped in a warm, soft cloud and rest there peacefully whenever you need respite from the world.

Love is your natural vibration

“When the solution is simple. God is answering.”  ~ Albert Einstein

Our energy, our very personal vibration reflects who we are.  It is who we are.  Whatever vibrational frequency we are currently at, whether it is of love or fear, is what the universe is vibrating back to us.   It’s that simple.  Knowing this, it only makes sense to vibrate at the frequency of love!  Love does not need an object.  Love just is.  You can feel love when you are all alone.  You can feel love in a huge crowd of strangers.  Love is an energy.  It does not need a receiver.  You are the transmitter.  You are the source.  Love, gratitude, abundance are all of your own wonderful positive energies.


Feel them.  Explore how wonderful those emotions feel.  As you realize the positive influence these thoughts have on your emotions, as well as the well being of all with whom you come into contact, it will simply initiate more positive thoughts and interactions.  More positive emotions will follow.  The universe will have trouble keeping up with you!

We can use our power to change our lives and change the world.   We can have anything we desire.  That is how powerful we are.  Start to see the life you want and start to see the world in which you wish to live.   Know that wish is a reality!  FAITH in your ability to effect change simply by transforming your energy is the KEY to your power.  Words are stronger than thoughts and actions are stronger than words.  They all carry power, but it starts with our thoughts.  That’s why being mindful of our thoughts is so important.  (Notice how I repeat that concept, it’s  the simple path to happiness!)

Think about your energy.  When does it feel the most intense?  If you’re like me it’s when you’re feeling a strong emotion.  Emotion will always increase the strength of your vibration, whether good or bad.   When you imagine something, or are practicing your visualizations, use the power of your amazing emotions and get things moving at a more rapid pace!


If you did nothing but feel love all the time your energy would attract the pinnacle of happiness.  The highest frequency brings the best life.  The feeling of love increases your happiness just as it is!  It’s not rocket science!  It’s quantum physics.  Perception of your world makes a huge difference!  Perceive goodness and love.


Truly see how divine you are.  Know your inheritance.  Feel the love, the love that is yours, the love that you are.

I love these affirmations:

  • All you need is love.
  • I am in control of my emotions and use them to bring me happiness.
  • The universe recognizes my desires and works quickly to realize them.
  • I see a world saturated in love.
  • I treat all beings with love and respect.
  • Love is all you need.

See all people you meet as loved ones.  Extend love and respect to them all.